Archive for the ‘Happiness’ Category

Five confessions in failed attempts at “productivity,” where it’s led me, and where it can take you


October 28, 2008 by Jared Goralnick

Failure to finish I don’t write about productivity because it comes naturally.  I’m more the psychologist who started as a headcase, hoping to both treat himself and uniquely identify with his patients.

The following are my failures, some that I’ve learned from, and some I’ve yet to rationalize.  Maybe my difficult lessons can help you to succeed.  Added later: I hope you’ll stay on for a surprise.

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Mastering the art of being a slave to your body…and scheduling your whole life around it


October 20, 2008 by Jared Goralnick

Sleeping at one's office desk It’s 4pm, and I could use a nap.  B-bye.

Our body forces moods and energy levels upon us that just don’t work with real world schedules.  Or perhaps those schedules are insufficient.

Sometimes it’s better to be a slave to your body: the benefits are huge.

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Extreme friendships for extreme growth–the fastest way to go the distance


October 6, 2008 by Jared Goralnick

Climbing: Reach Further There’s a formula for change that I’ve come across in the past year: embrace people with diverse and seemingly extreme views.

Someone a couple steps ahead might bring you forward a few inches.  Someone a mile in the distance can change your life.

If you’re the product of the people around you, then it makes sense to have a few outliers in your friends.

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“If real life took place in 140 chars”: how Twitter has taught me to value your time


September 25, 2008 by Jared Goralnick

Close lippedWe could all learn from Twitter’s 140 character limit.  If we were more concise and respectful of people’s time elsewhere, the world would be a happier, more productive place.

Consider this the next time someone chews your ear off.  And don’t do the same.  Here’s the why and how.

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Bite off less than you can chew


September 22, 2008 by Jared Goralnick

girl with giant cookie Hunting through my garage I came across reminders of things that never came to fruition.  Sometimes it’s the tangible that offers insight into who we are and how we haven’t changed.

The lesson I picked up, that’s been a theme for me this year is to do a little less, buy a little less, and generally bite off less than you can chew.

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From Getting to Done to Getting to Happy (GTD applied to GTH)


September 8, 2008 by Jared Goralnick

The aim of productivity is to get things done.  A hope for day-to-day living is happiness.

Perhaps lessons-learned in productivity can be channeled into this day-to-day hope, helping us to “get to happy.”

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Should “productivity” play a role in your friendships and relationships?


August 25, 2008 by Jared Goralnick

Mapping out a line of people When it comes to friendships and relationships, is it fair to apply principles of productivity…or is it not only a waste of time but perhaps even harsh and potentially damaging?

I say if you’ve got a system that works for you, then by all means apply it to the people in your life, too.  It’ll not only help your sanity but your relationships.

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Applying the 80/20 rule to friendships: who’s on your A List?


August 18, 2008 by Jared Goralnick

Maybe these people are on your A-List Who do you want in your life?  I want to answer that question and discuss what to do about it.

I hoped to write a blog post explaining timezones and technology, but there are moments when computer tips just aren’t that important.

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Big questions in lifestyle design…and a couple links


August 4, 2008 by Jared Goralnick

The Blue Lagoon, from my recent visit I’m still on holiday abroad just now, but I’ve been building some perspective.  I wanted to reflect a little on what’s on my mind in the hope that it’ll be of value to you.

So here are a few questions about “the big stuff” both for and from me…

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How do you limit your time in front of a computer? Apparently, many ways


June 5, 2008 by Jared Goralnick

reclining_laptop_users

We all get glued to our computers. How do you limit your time there? Got any tricks?

I posed these questions on Ask MetaFilter and received a number of helpful and interesting responses. This post is a summary with highlights of techniques and tools for walking away from your computer when you need (or want) to.

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